That is, if more knitting = more normal which, of course, is perhaps up for debate. But I digress.
Last year I finished nine knitted objects. Some of them were knitted lace, with many stitches. But by year’s end my total seemed paltry.
This year I ‘ve already finished four knitted objects (linked to pattern in Ravelry):
One doesn’t have to be a math whiz to see the potential here. I could possibly end up with four times as many FO’s in 2008 as in 2007. That might make me feel as though I’ve accomplished something momentous. Which would be good.
Many of you know that over two years ago (December 2005) I initiated divorce proceedings. For reasons known to some and at which I’m sure some can guess, this divorce is not yet final—or even close. Despite the fact that thousands of dollars have been eaten up in attorney’s fees. Despite the fact that he has moved on to another relationship (and I’m glad for it). Recent efforts have gone to filing contempt charges and a motion to compel. So much time, money and energy have been wasted (but, of course, that is the point).
This situation, and all that it implies, is the primary reason I’ve not been myself for going on three years now. But I’m learning to live under siege, as it were. I’m inching toward normal. If, um, more knitting means more. . .well, you know.
Heh.
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2008 will be a much better year for you in EVERY way!
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 12:50 pm ¶When you’re in the midst of a divorce, especially such a lengthy one, it does drag on and it’s hard to be yourself. But, as you are seeing, you are moving on and it will eventually be settled. You can’t live in a holding pattern, you’ve got to do what you can do to the best of your ability to hang on. I hope this ordeal will soon be over for you.
And of course, knitting=normal in my book too.
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 1:05 pm ¶If more knitting = more normal, then I’m going to have a banner year too! Oh wait… maybe at some point more knitting = excessive. Hmmmm.
Anyway, here’s hoping you have a much, much better year!
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 1:06 pm ¶I think you’re doing wonderful. I couldn’t believe how much better you looked this year when I saw you.
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 2:42 pm ¶Love comin’ at you from gray, rainy Portland! While the divorce keeps dragging on, you have accomplished so much. The best thing you’ve done is to keep your heart open to so many of us. Your big heart keeps loving your dear boys (excuse me, young men - LOL) and your grateful friends. Each year, things are getting better.
Here’s to a 2008 full of strength, laughter, love, and persistence. You rock!
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 2:46 pm ¶More knitting is always more better, I think.
See you Tuesday!
Posted 10 Feb 2008 at 9:30 pm ¶I am so happy to hear it…more knitting DOES mean more normal. You deserve a great year, I hope you get it.
Posted 11 Feb 2008 at 10:08 am ¶Love the FO’s. That Koigu bag is beautiful. I hope the “stress” goes away soon so you can become MORE normal. Though I have no idea what normal is! LOL!
Posted 11 Feb 2008 at 11:29 am ¶Normal, schmormal. Nice knitting projects!
Posted 11 Feb 2008 at 4:51 pm ¶Sorry to hear that he’s still trying to jerk your chain. Maybe he needs to take up knitting.
I haven’t “been there” from the beginning so you seem PERFECTLY normal to me. But then I think I’m perfectly normal so perhaps I’m not a good judge.
Posted 11 Feb 2008 at 11:50 pm ¶Normal is over-rated anyway. We all love you just for yourself, knitting or no.
I hope the stinky divorce proceedings are over with soon so you can get on with things in your new life.
Posted 12 Feb 2008 at 9:02 am ¶Are you kidding? You are living the life, honey! Friends, music, fiber!!!
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